Hey there i posted that stuff about kissing and now i asked my sunday school teacher a few hours ago and he said yeh it is wrong...
But in school, in 6th grade i didn't really care but as i got popular i started to think about it and im giving in really fast. I have a lot of friends and girl friends too(as in friends not realshinship...) and its really hard especially when most of them have girl friends/boyfriends and probebly most of you are going to say stay away from them? how can i do that when they come to me? Do you want me to just say [b]GET AWAY FROM ME I DOTN WANT TO HEAR OR SEE YOU????[b] And yes i have tried praying to god to help me and im fasting right now and i have givin it time its been about 2 years and nothing. I will evenually kiss someone.
I'm sure if i ask abouna he will tell me to stay away from them which i really can't do...
What should i do?
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I do not know how old you are, but hearing you say that you will eventually kiss someone for sure actually surprises me. You seem to be more worried about the kissing than about the one you will be kissing.
I would like to remind you that a kiss is a intimate thing, a sign of affection between a husband and his wife.
Be my guest to kiss your wife as much as you want when you get married, but before that there is no reason to kiss any girl... a kiss kan lead to worse things, like having sex with that person (with all the bad consequences it has). Love as much people as you like, love them with true Christian love, but as you probably know, there are three different kinds of love, and one of them is only for married couples!
Every time you say the 'Our father', you pray 'do not lead us into temptation', then why would you harm yourself by getting yourself into situations you obviously cannot cope with?
And then this: your friends influence you as you say and you cannot leave them. But why is the case not otherwise, why cant you make them NOT kiss each other? Why cant you leave them? Is their presence more important to you than your eternal life?
Please dont get mad at me for being blunt, it is just the way I see things.
Keep me in your prayers.
I left my best friends at school last year because i realized that God was definately not invited to hang out with us. I also fasted and prayed to God to help me figure this out, and sure enough God presented me with an escape. It was really hard at first cause my friends weren't getting the message, and kept clining to me, and then i was like a loner for a bit, but then God, as amazing as He is, brought me into an awesome group that love God and are soo kind. After a few weeks your friends will get the message. Almost a year later, i can definately say that those few weeks where i was a lsoer were definately worth it cause i found, well God found, some great friends that bring me closer to God, so why not leave them? Ask yourself, is God invited in your group? Would it be a group God would want to be in?
Matthew 19:29-30
"29 And everyone who has left houses or brothers or sisters or father or mother or wife or children or lands, for My name’s sake, shall receive a hundredfold, and inherit eternal life. 30 But many who are first will be last, and the last first."
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