ok, i have a friend, we're really good friends, and he's a guy, and someone found out that he had feeling for me. I just want to be friends and nothing more, can someone out there help me. ??? i think there's a topic about this somewhere, if u happen to run across it, please tell me.
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Sorry...I didn't help much :-\
i think i'm in the same situation.. and he told me that he likes me.. omg.. wut now???? ???
There's nothing wrong there. If someone tells u they like u thats very sweet of them and all but dont ever feel obligated that u have to like them back or pressured that u have to answer with something big. Slowly and easily and stress-freely explain ur thoughts and not much can go wrong. I'm sure if the person really likes u he wont be mad if u say "thank u i'm honored but my mind isnt set on anyoe rite now" . Good luck girls. Live Strong!
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If it's both ways then there's also nothing wrong with that. Liking ppl is nothing out of the ordinary...its called being a teenager or just plain old normal, lolx.
However it is mutual then u shouldn't tell him. I mean after u tell him, then what? U both r going to want to take it to a next level, which is usually dating...which leads to other levels that lead to other levels that lead to u maybe poppin kids...ok ok, lolx...just a lil exaggration, but u get the point. If u like him, u like him, just another crush to remember and if u really like him then its just another name in ur book of memory in life...just dont tell him, especially if the feelings r mutual...wwhooo no, lolx. Personally if i liked a guy (its been a while, wow, lolx i'm so not normal) newaysif i liked a guy i would b scared out of my brain(whats left of it) to even breathe a hint that i like him....i wish i had those kinda guts, i'm such a mushy thing, uugghh o well, but yeah, :-X dont say nuftin 2 him ;)
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I think for u to be sure whether or not u lyk him, u have to sit down with urself and weigh everything, the good and bad. If u find urself naming good things and having to dig ur brain 4 something bad and even then u say it with a smile, then u lyk him, lolx. And i'm just curious...what happens if he does like u again? I mean u liked each other b4, what happened then? If u like each other again, what happens now? U get me... just be careful cuz sometimes your feelings destroy the best of friendships, so if u lyk him that much and he vice/versa...then u 2 wouldn't prolly do anything to ruin the friendship that already exists between u even if it means NOT going out or anything beyond or before that, lolx... ;)...wow, i shouldnt be answering for these topics :-\, i'm lyk so badd, lolx...Good luck though :P
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it's really the experience talking more than i am...lolx i should really stopp...neways...MERRY ALMOST NEW YEAR GUYS!! 4 MORE DAYS AND IT'S A NEW YEAR!! omg...thas scaryy, lolx
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its up to u....
i guess the important thing is not to let it occupy ur mind too much. if you're distracted in mass by the person, or thoughts of the person, if you're not praying well because u spend too much time talking to that person at night, if you're unable to focus on Christ for any reason because of that person, then... that's not too good, lol.
its ok to have feelings, i mean it proves that you're human (lol).... so if u wanna decide whether u should tell them or not, do it on the basis that, if you tell them, will it help you focus less on them and more on God? or will it be better for your salvation if they dont find out?
and if its a 2-way thing... avoid dating! im sure we all know this... society makes it ok, but our church is against it... so lets believe the church. dating a person will only cause you to focus on that person more than on God... and who is the one who went through endless suffering for us? it wasnt that person that we'll be focusing on....
i hope im not sounding too preachy or weird... its just that these feeligs that us as teens/people have can be a great tool that the devil uses to take us away from the focus on our Saviour... so take care in whatever decision you make!
salam...
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WOW i like wut u guys r typing.. lol.. thats all good stuff.. most of it.. ;D
but i changed
and it is confusing a bit dont u say