Need Major Help

EgyptianCopt88 · June 2005

Hey guys, how ya'll doing? Well for me, it's been really rough. My family is falling apart in front of my own eyes. It's crazy. To sum it all up, all my cousins are ignoring me and my sister and all my aunts are ignoring my mom. Everyone is talking about each other behind each others back. The major problem that keeps bothering my is that my sister and I and my cousins we really close and out of no we all hate each other. I have no clue what to do. The thing is I don't want anything bad happen to any of us (God forebid) and , us, never talking to each other every angain and regretting it for the rest of our lifes. I pray to God everyday that things can get back to norml and this has been going on for around 2 years. Anybody know what to do other than to talk a Abouna? Please pray for me and my family. Thank you for your time. God Bless. :-\

Unknown · June 2005

Don't worry EgyptianCopt88,
some of us have been through the same thing, and if you believe that it could get better than it will, I will pray for you for you shall have dignity over your faith and have more faith all your life may you be comforted in your needs and your need of help well, hope this advice works for you and may the LORD and MOTHER MARY can come to a good advice trip and may the miracle of help help you

God bless you

*Nansy*

Unknown · June 2005

Pray definitely but also talk to your family..open your heart to them..I know people can be cruel but no matter how they react to your words, they will affect them and perhaps by the grace of God, they'll realize their wrong..

nardin · June 2005

that is absolutely right every1
also egyptiancopt88 always no that God never gives u anything more than u can handle. Gods prob just testing u np itll b sooner or later finished but u must NEVER no matter abandon or leev our Lord bcoz with Him u can do all things as mentioned in philippians 4:13 so ull b alright with the support of every1ns prayers (u def. got mine) and u pray as well and im certain ull b ok just trust in God and always no He is rite next to Him and will never abandon His sheep

GB ALL
+FROG+
GOD IS GREAT!!

MAA1803 · July 2005

As already mentioned prayer is the answer. My expereince is that no matter what you do or say - alone you may only make things worse and put yourself in situations that are not easy to get out of and very difficult to explain. Lead by example. I think it is in the Proverbs 'Speech is Silver, Silence is Gold'. It is not easy being in your spot, but you are not alone. Take care and pray for me please.

MA

EgyptianCopt88 · July 2005

Thanks guys for the help. I think the problem has gotten worse since I posted. It's okay thou, my parents, sister and I are just ignoring all the lies and rumors they're saying about us. I just pray to God each day that everything will be back to normal but it doesn't seem like it will be for a while. Thanks for advice guys and May God be with us all!

Katherine

basketball · July 2005

hey it has happened to me and what i have learned is that u have to pray pray and pray more..have faith in god and he will do his best!!!!!always depend on god for the problems and he will work it out for u!!!!! hope i helped adn u and ur family will be in my prayers always!!!! may god be with you all!!!!!
basketball

copticmariam · July 2005

hey, i know life may seem tough right now, but im sure it will get better sooner or later....god is always there with you and your family, the best guess i have is to why this is happening to you would be that god thinks you and your family is strong enough to get through this and just wanted to test you all and see how much faith you have....so dont let god down and just keep on praying and it will get better, and if this makes you feel any better, so many people i know have been through family problems, in fact i think almost everyone has been through some sort of family problem in one point of thier lives, so the best advice i can give you is to keep on praying and i promise i will pray for you every night, i hope i have helped you even the tiniest bit! god bless you and your family!

*mariam*

Unknown · July 2005

Hey EgyptianCopt88,
look at the positive side what if your family is better what great things do you look forward to, but if you think negative it's a whole different side you don't necessarily need to look at that side look at it this way

negative side-hell or hades
positive side-heaven or paradise

which one would you pick?

for a lot of people I know it would be positive side-heaven or paradise

_canadiancopt_ · July 2005

like everyone said pray.
but have faith because if you do anything can happen, just look at the mountain that moved... Anything is possible in God. Stick to Christ, and YOU WILL NEVER EVER LOSE.

Be Agios · August 2005

it always disapoints me to see or hear about families breaking up since a family is united by some thing very strong (the holy spirit) and you r supposed to be united as one hand. i cann't say i know what u r going through but i will help you with the strongest weapon ever prayer and fasting.

so please tell me if things get better

irini pasi

nardin · August 2005

since its st marys feast ask God to help u im sure He will

happy fruits of the fast ppl

Christ4Life · August 2005

why havent we heard from him/her for almost a month now???

EgyptianCopt88 · August 2005

Thanks for all of your help and prayers. I should have thanked you sooner but the computer has been unplugged due to painting the whole house.

It's been the same with the fam-bam. I don't think we will ever be the same again. I still pray that we could be a "family" again. I do miss seeing them. I do miss going to azomahs on Sunday after chuuch. My life has been really dull ever since this break up. But what can I do than pray? I wish I can sit down with them and talk about it. But we can't. All that is left to do is leave this problem into God's hand's and leave it up to Him, kinda, I guess :-\

But thank you again for your advice and prayers, Rabena mayakoum...sorry, I can't spell arabic english.

Christ4Life · August 2005

All I can say is may God be with you, help you, and protect you.

P.S. Did you tell your FOC?

Unknown · August 2005

May God help you and guide you, but don't lose faith!

ya kathrine did you tell you F.O.C.

EgyptianCopt88 · August 2005

No, I haven't talked to my FOC about this matter. I know I should but I haven't.

What can Abouna do about this?

Christ4Life · August 2005

He, better than any1 on this thread (not to say that some ppl here don't give great advice) can tell you what to do to bring your family back together.

EgyptianCopt88 · August 2005

I would love to talk to my FOC but my social phobia always kicks in and I run away. It's really hard for me to go up to anybody and start talking to them esp. Abouna. I'll pray to God so he can help me with my fears.

nardin · August 2005

hay egyptiancopt write it down, i coukdnt say some stuff and i wrote my stuff on a piece of paper it came out to b a whole a4 sheet lol take as many as u want i agree tottally wit all4Christ abouna is the only 1 that wood giv u the best advice ever coz the HS talks throo him so write ALL ur feelings down and give it to him

Rabena ma3aki hope all goes well
GB ALL
+FROG+
GOD IS GREAT!!

Christ4Life · August 2005

Great idea FROG, if you can't say it, write it! i know you feel shy coming up to abouna, i do 2, but you have to know that he would never do anything to hurt you. he would never humiliate or embarass (sry 4 the spelling) you, because he is a human the Holy Spirit works through. Look, whether you write it down or scream it out, find a way to tell your FOC.

Hope I helped

May God be with you, protect you, and help you in all that you do.

mnc_hnn · August 2005

well all ppl have problems but wat i'm sure about is if u're prayin and askin faithfully God will do
4 me it got like that once in my family but it was just affectin me by being scared and 2 hate ppl but FAITHFUL PRAYERS will be heard!
and i'll pray 4 u
take care

nardin · August 2005

'i prayed to the Lord and He heard me... incline your ear to me o Lord and save me'

to comfort you and to help you, before you sleep tonight pray the midnight services i read it and wow amazing gr8 stuff its really comforting so yeh go ahead wen u get tym go for it.

GB ALL
+FROG+
GOD IS GREAT!!

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