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A Modest Proposal
Dear all,
As the Great Lent approaches us, the need for calmness and focus becomes more important. Just as quickly as this holy time has come, it will quickly pass. For some of us, myself first, we allow it to pass having many regrets. ("I wish I would've read that book"; "I wish I could've started praying more", etc.)
The reason for this, I believe, is simply distraction. We allow ourselves to continue as we have always done: school, work, activities, etc. I don't think any of these things are inherently bad, but in the Great Lent, I think we should minimize the less necessary tasks and devote more time to prayer, meditation and participating in the Divine Liturgy.
My proposal: Let's lock some functions of the forums, particularly posting and starting new topics.
Tasbeha.org is a wonderful place for all of us to come together in discussion. It can be edifying, but the wicked one can also use it against us. We can spend more time than we need to on the forums and many times during this special season we get into arguments and discussions that benefit no one.
Perhaps you are thinking that we can control ourselves and simply not use it? This is true, but for some of us (me!), our will is so weak. Eliminating the temptation is a better option.
I also think that we have discussed most topics repeatedly. A simple search should lead one to the answers they are looking for. Or, you could always PM someone who can answer your question.
I think we can all benefit from taking time away form the forums. Plus, it will be awesome when we come back :)
What do you all think?
As the Great Lent approaches us, the need for calmness and focus becomes more important. Just as quickly as this holy time has come, it will quickly pass. For some of us, myself first, we allow it to pass having many regrets. ("I wish I would've read that book"; "I wish I could've started praying more", etc.)
The reason for this, I believe, is simply distraction. We allow ourselves to continue as we have always done: school, work, activities, etc. I don't think any of these things are inherently bad, but in the Great Lent, I think we should minimize the less necessary tasks and devote more time to prayer, meditation and participating in the Divine Liturgy.
My proposal: Let's lock some functions of the forums, particularly posting and starting new topics.
Tasbeha.org is a wonderful place for all of us to come together in discussion. It can be edifying, but the wicked one can also use it against us. We can spend more time than we need to on the forums and many times during this special season we get into arguments and discussions that benefit no one.
Perhaps you are thinking that we can control ourselves and simply not use it? This is true, but for some of us (me!), our will is so weak. Eliminating the temptation is a better option.
I also think that we have discussed most topics repeatedly. A simple search should lead one to the answers they are looking for. Or, you could always PM someone who can answer your question.
I think we can all benefit from taking time away form the forums. Plus, it will be awesome when we come back :)
What do you all think?
Comments
i think closing down for the whole of lent will be a problem coz people often ask questions about the church during lent, so this should be allowed.
I won't lock the forums but I will be strict(er) about threads which begin to be arguments. So I will probably not be allowing discussion of Coptic pronounciation!
YESSSS!!!.....please pm specific people to not to. I think we know who always begin those discussions.
I won't lock the forums but I will be strict(er) about threads which begin to be arguments. So I will probably not be allowing discussion of Coptic pronounciation!
Or Coptic vs. vernacular
This is not a time to be concerned with others, except in prayer, but to focus very intently on our own spiritual life.
It is probably best if the only criticism allowed in a post during this season is of ourselves.
I won't lock the forums but I will be strict(er) about threads which begin to be arguments. So I will probably not be allowing discussion of Coptic pronounciation!
Would this be a bad time to express the proper spelling of the word "pronunciation"? lol just kidding
I think it would be a bad idea to close the forums because they affect each person in a different way. For example, this thread gave me the idea to deactivate my Facebook during the fast, and I will attempt to do that. That was in no way the topic of this thread, but that is how it touched me.
Thanks :D
You all have a point. I will try to stay away from posting; it may be unfair to force that on everyone else.
Have a blessed Lent :-)
I guess this might have been better titled "An Extreme Proposal" ;)
You all have a point. I will try to stay away from posting; it may be unfair to force that on everyone else.
Have a blessed Lent :-)
I don't understand. Why would you try to stay away from posting? If you can post and contribute to topics that are edifying isn't that your goal during lent anyway? Let's be honest here, for everybody other than Father Peter, it usually takes no more than 10 minutes to check on new topics on this site. It's not like it is going to take a lot of your time. And it's beneficial so not only is it not taking much of your time, it is also benefiting you at the same time.
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I guess this might have been better titled "An Extreme Proposal" ;)
You all have a point. I will try to stay away from posting; it may be unfair to force that on everyone else.
Have a blessed Lent :-)
I don't understand. Why would you try to stay away from posting? If you can post and contribute to topics that are edifying isn't that your goal during lent anyway? Let's be honest here, for everybody other than Father Peter, it usually takes no more than 10 minutes to check on new topics on this site. It's not like it is going to take a lot of your time. And it's beneficial so not only is it not taking much of your time, it is also benefiting you at the same time.
For the same reason some of the holy monks would stay silent. Many used to come to them for advice and a word, but they would remain quiet. Surely all of the monks that chose not to speak had many beautiful things to say.
Sometimes we just need to stay silent. Enough talking, enough typing, enough communicating. Lent is an opportunity to do that.
I am not comparing myself to these blessed desert fathers!
But for me, I talk too much + sometimes I get into controversial topics and probably offend people.
God bless you; pray for me.
+ That's not a modest proposal. Opting to close down a whole community isn't a modest proposal.
What's there to delete? My short and sweet comments? I know, they're sometimes bitter and a little too much, but instead of writing 500 paragraphs to give one point, write one line.