punished church!

edited December 1969 in Personal Issues
aghabyy everyone, i have a problem with my parents.  Sometimes im not "nice" to them.? Whatever like sometimes kids lose their temper too rite?  Well my dad punished me and said i couldnt go to church tonite for alhan/youthmeeting.  But he said he will let me go to teh mass and tasbeha. tomorrow...I begged and begged for him to let me go..he said no

so anyways i have two questions: 1)Is it wrong to bann ur child togo to church just for once to teach them a lesson? Am i supposed to not go to churc because my dad said no!??

2) Can you please pray for me that i dont get upset at my parents and that i could deal with them a nicer way.  Now dont get me wrong.  I am not a  horrible person. But i think i could work on improving my attitude..

thanks in advance

+mahraeel+

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  • [coptic]Mehrayl tamenrit>
    Vai piswft an pe aresan peiwt joc eroc `mpermosi e]ek`klycia - qen pisorp `cse an `ntemosi `mmau `mpatecwtem erof ouoh `cnau V] efnarasi `mmo e;bytc[/coptic]
    That is not wrong when your father tells you don't go to the church - first it is not correct that you go there when you didn't listen to him and two God will not be happy with you for that
    [coptic]Teerqae niws `nte nibwhem ie ]Euaggelia ie ]litourgia an pe `nhouo `nnis] ehote tecwtem epeiwt[/coptic]
    Missing lessons of hymns or Bible or Liturgy is not more important than listening to your father
    [coptic]Ws Mat;eoc =e@=k=g[/coptic]
    Read Matthew 5:23
    [coptic]oujai qen `P=[=c[/coptic]
  • [quote author=mahraeel link=topic=7195.msg95373#msg95373 date=1223673153]
    aghabyy everyone, i have a problem with my parents.  Sometimes im not "nice" to them.? Whatever like sometimes kids lose their temper too rite?  Well my dad punished me and said i couldnt go to church tonite for alhan/youthmeeting.  But he said he will let me go to teh mass and tasbeha. tomorrow...I begged and begged for him to let me go..he said no

    so anyways i have two questions: 1)Is it wrong to bann ur child togo to church just for once to teach them a lesson? Am i supposed to not go to churc because my dad said no!??

    2) Can you please pray for me that i dont get upset at my parents and that i could deal with them a nicer way.  Now dont get me wrong.  I am not a  horrible person. But i think i could work on improving my attitude..

    thanks in advance

    +mahraeel+


    the main factor here is why do you go to church? is it just to hang out, play around, pray, liturgy....etc.
    theere can be many reasons......
  • well i love hymns/tasbeha/communion/waza(lectures)
    .. no  but thats not the reason... what r u saying?

    +mahraeel+
  • A)You are not alone. Please try to be nice to your parents and they will be nice to you too.I am sure you know that.However, sometimes we lose our temper and overreact.In such cases,when you regain your composure, just ask for forgivness,say that you were sorry and you did not mean it.These words are easy and move mountains.

    B) If you grounded (lol), then you must respect that,regardless of your plans.Even if they know,that you must attend church, they are wise enough to know,if they should reverse their decision.Let them handle that.They always mean it good.When the air is peaceful,you may like to ask them why the ban was unconditional,ie,including going to church.

    c) I am not good in prayers,but tomorrow,I will ask Abuna to place your name in the altar for both requests,including your upcoming exams.

    God Bless
  • [quote author=Hezekiel link=topic=7195.msg95386#msg95386 date=1223689450]
    A)You are not alone. Please try to be nice to your parents and they will be nice to you too.I am sure you know that.However, sometimes we lose our temper and overreact.In such cases,when you regain your composure, just ask for forgivness,say that you were sorry and you did not mean it.These words are easy and move mountains.

    B) If you grounded (lol), then you must respect that,regardless of your plans.Even if they know,that you must attend church, they are wise enough to know,if they should reverse their decision.Let them handle that.They always mean it good.When the air is peaceful,you may like to ask them why the ban was unconditional,ie,including going to church.

    c) I am not good in prayers,but tomorrow,I will ask Abuna to place your name in the altar for both requests,including your upcoming exams.

    God Bless


    lol cant lose my temoer haha thxx

    O thankss so much. much appreciated for doing that.  GBU

    +mahraeel+
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