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TOM-BOYING
Is it in anyway bad to be a tomboy??? I dont know but it seems to me that i am one since i really like wearin pants and really really dont like wearing dresses/skirts. I also really dont like make up and i think that sometimes people who put it on make themselves look worse than b4 and that they looked better without it. I inside think that i would have been better to be a boy (but i wouldnt go to any lengths to change my gender coz i think that is just weird), i dont like doing girly things. soo yeh, so is being a tom boy bad. Any comments also appreciated and welcomed. thanks. cya. have a great day and feast of st George. bii
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just remember to also be gentle and kind, and don't laugh at girls who are scared or spiders and love shopping, they can't help being that way!
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God Bless.
But thinking from inside that you want to be a boy is not right.
Why isn't that right?
Orthodoxy is a strict religion. A strict faith without a strict house do not compromise.
The reason they say no to most everything you suggest is because they love you to an incredible amount, not because the word "no" is fun to say.
I used to be like you when I was your age... you don't have to do what everyone else does just be yourself and dowatchalike. I didn't like wearing skirts and dresses and the like.. I wear jeans and just what I'm comfortable with.. but now I do wear dresses only when the time calls for it.. I actually like wearing dresses and I love heels when I wear em.. which is like no more than 10 days in a year (Church feasts, and weddings or birthdays). I don't know any of my friends who don't wear make up.. but I never wear make up.. If I do, it'd be more like 2-3 days in year where I'd have no choice.. I don't think I need it and it doesn't look good on me anyways so I'm good (thank God lol). As long as your comfortable and respectable.
Your in year 9 right? I definitely know what your going thru... it's the stage where girls start to wear make up lol.
But.. you can only do this to a certain degree.. You have to make sure your NOT careless about the way you look.. it's still important to look good.
And don't worry you'll probably phase out of it in good time... Like some of my friends who never liked skirts and dresses, but now it's all they wear.
Hope I helped.
You know you remind me so much of myself, how I used to be... I never wore earrings too.. but now I just wear simple ones.
Trust me, I wore skirts EVERY sunday without fail only until recently I sometimes wear jeans usually because I do stuff after church.. But when I start to serve Sunday school, I'm gonna make sure I wear nice/skirts etc because I know so well that kids tend to copy what their servants are wearing.
All in good time, your gonna change without knowing it lol
Its not that i want to be a boy, but more like it would have been better to be a guy coz my parents are really over protective and i bet u that if i were a guy it would be less protective. LIke they are sooooo super worried its not funny. thats y i would prefer to b a guy but for a bunch of other reasons i prefer being a girl. but also i always do think that GOd made me a girl for a reason but i dont really know y. sooo yeh well cya
Yeah, my mom called the School, alerted the authorities (and my dad), and she was probably on the Phone with the Army Air Force, and Navy, when I called her during a Biology Test I was finishing up after school. She's that worried about me, and that's why I'm getting a Cell-Phone. Lol, and I'm a boy.
Girls wearing pants is not a problem at all, your parents just want to make you look fancy I think lol.